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Brandi Wiatrak's avatar

Welp… that was the gentle slap of reality I didn’t know I ordered. 😅

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Justin Doherty's avatar

Carmen, I came across this well-expressed post today and immediately thought of the title of a book I read years ago. It was called “Wherever You Go, There You Are” by Jon Kabat Zinn. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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Benthall Adventures's avatar

This resonates so deeply ✈️

Travel didn’t fix me—but it gave me space to see what needed healing. The loneliness didn’t disappear just because the scenery changed.

I wrote about this in my own way, in a piece called A Ghost Abroad—about disappearing from one life and slowly reappearing in another. Sharing in case it speaks to anyone else walking that line between escape and becoming:

https://thebenthalls.substack.com/p/a-ghost-abroad

Such a strange, beautiful life—stitched with longing, memory, and a little bit of hope. Thank you!

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